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Are You Toxic or Flawed?

Are You Toxic or Flawed?

Update: 2025-09-10
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Not every relationship issue is toxic—but not everything is just a “rough patch,” either. In this episode, we talk about the line between flaws and real harm, and how to tell the difference.

We share moments from our own relationship where we had to confront things that weren’t working—from communication breakdowns to the postpartum season when we honestly didn’t like each other much. The difference is, we chose growth instead of blame.

We also answer questions from our listeners about blended families and how to handle in-laws who test your patience without wrecking your peace.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is this normal, or is this toxic?”—this one’s for you.

Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://linktr.ee/lifeafteridopodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

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