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If you could design your perfect partner, what traits would they have? This week, we build our “Fantasy Marriage Draft,” picking the qualities we think make for a solid, lasting relationship.

From emotional intelligence and consistency to playfulness and independence, we talk through what really counts over time—not just during the honeymoon phase.

We also answer some listener questions, including a surprise paternity story and a relationship debate about showing up unannounced.

Whether you’re single or married, this episode will have you thinking about the traits that matter most—and recognizing them in your real-life partner more than you might expect.

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