in life. There are two choices. You either barbecue or yeah, mildew, I'll explain. Welcome back to black boy lessons with cam. So my father used to say this to me and my brothers all the time and y'all, he was not talking about going to the backyard and grilling up some protein on a grill. What he's talking about is, what are you going to do with today? What are you going to do with your life? How are you going to take gifts or take something that God has given you and flip it into something better? Are you going to sit back and watch something become mildew? Are you going to sit back and watch something decay? Are you going to sit in a depressive state? Are you going to continue to allow yourself to become so toxic that you just become that block of cheese sitting in the back of the refrigerator. So you guys can understand why this is so important to really wrap your head around, are you gonna barbecue? You're gonna mildew? Are you going to, you know, go after the things that are important to you or are you not the choice is yours? So the reason why this is today's black boy lesson is I was on a call earlier today with my best friend and she said this to me and I was so shocked that it came out of her mouth because The only other person in my entire life I've ever heard say this was my dad and unfortunately in 2019 my dad um transitioned into another life. So I just felt like it was my dad speaking to me today, and I want to share with all of you and hopes that it will help to motivate and navigate any situations that you all are going through. Are you going to barbecue or are you gonna mildew another lesson of a black boy?

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