My guest today is a breast cancer advocate who uses her voice and her writing to walk alongside new patients in so many ways--she has a blog, a memoir, and now she's got an AI companion for those who haven't found a human connection yet, to process their breast cancer experience with. Her web site is called "AskEllyn.ai" and that's where you can find all of her offerings. 

Ellyn wrote her story of going flat just a couple of years ago while sitting in the chemo chair. Today she's collaborating with functional practitioners as well as brand new breast cancer patients to put out a community blog full of collaborations. I love what Ellyn's doing in our community and I love her openness about all of the challenges she's overcome.

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Find Ellyn's blog and AI tool at https://AskEllyn.ai

 

Kathleen's AskEllyn blog entries are here: https://askellyn.ai/?s=recurrence

and here: https://askellyn.ai/di-indol-methane-and-sulforaphane-and-breast-cancer/

 

The AI breast cancer bestie story is here: https://youtu.be/2euyqULTvFc?si=XR-C1lwl-yu_k68N

 

And Ellyn's other podcast interviews about breast cancer are here:

https://youtu.be/1xiNRT_ODsI?si=lZUbk0jX9g3lJ41l

https://youtu.be/iyMI5qAKKBA?si=CHzGd7g8VsBaoXCm

 

Transcript:

My guest today is Ellyn Winters Robinson, my first international guest. She's from Waterloo, Ontario, originally from Ottawa up in Canada, and she's the creator of the AskEllyn.ai blog and AI tool or companion. We'll talk a little bit more about that later. She's the chief marketing officer at Ignition Communications, and she mentors tech startups, and she's been doing so for many years. She was stage 2b and she had ductal carcinoma. Welcome Ellyn!

E

Oh, well, thank you for having me, Kathleen.

K

Yeah! Yeah, so you and I have been partnering on the Ask Ellyn blog. I've been a guest blogger. This is my first time guest blogging for anyone and it's been such a nice experience.

E

I'm loving having your voice and your advice as part of this, this thing that we're building. So very

K

Aw, thanks. Thanks for being that safe place for me to enter the breast cancer world as a nutritionist. It's a scary thing having had breast cancer. You know, been in the breast cancer community for two and a half years now and kind of zipping my lip about nutrition because it is such a triggering topic for people.

I feel like your blog has been a really welcoming venue for me to talk about that in a careful way. I am very aware that it is full of triggers and self blame and shame. So I'm trying to be very, very careful and sensitive and permissive in all of my nutrition advice.

I know you started with writing your book, which the name of your book, I love flat, please hold the shame. So that was your first foray into the breast cancer kind of public life. Um, I, I was just reading your book this week and really enjoyed it. So that was your first step. And then how did it, how did everything else kind of follow after that?

E

I don't know if your, if your followers would know, or you know about something called the butterfly effect. It was actually sort of a concept that was developed for weather systems, like one little weather system can kind of trigger a massive storm somewhere else. it's also, it's a good way of describing what's happened to me, which is just this domino effect of all these sort of, you know, one thing happens, which then leads to another. And it's just been this really crazy journey over the last two, two years, almost three years now. So I'm coming on my three year diagnosis anniversary in March and I, you know, I think where it started was, as we all do, you kind of go through this and it changes you forever and you just want to start giving back. just want to help that next person not have to, you know, go through this alone. And that's really where the, the start of my book kind of came from was I actually wrote it while I was in chemotherapy because I'm a storyteller. That's what I do for a living. And so I was like thumb typing the book as I'm going through chemo, uh, my phone, and I just wanted to tell a really simple story of somebody that was going through it, uh, that was really relatable and not sad and fun and funny and kind of encouraging so that somebody at the end of it would go, okay, okay, you know, there were hills and valleys and bumps along the way, but she got through it.

I can get through it. And that's the feedback I've had from the book, which is great. And then, you know, even before I put the book out there, I ended up having this sort of chance encounter with another tech startup founder that I work with. We weren't even talking about breast cancer, but it came up in the conversation and then he was asking me a ton of questions and I sent him my manuscript. And lo and behold, he used that as the basis to create Ask Ellyn. And so, suddenly I found myself with a digital version of me who, you know, this AI knows my story and. She is really smart and understands everything going on in the world, but she also, you know, has all of my personality and experience and emotional responses. And so we launched her, that was about a year ago. She's just had her first birthday in October and, uh, and she's out there now and now I just learned in the fall that she's been selected to be part of something called the City Cancer Challenge, which is organization out of Geneva that is delivering digital navigation solutions to countries in the world, low to middle income countries.

And so she's now, too. So, yeah, it's just been this really crazy, you know, ride. So, you know, it's kind of one of those advice I always give to a person when I sit and mentor them is. You know, don't get so caught in your course that sometimes you miss these other opportunities that are kind of, you know, floating down the river toward you. And that's exactly what's happened. It's like, you know, okay, I say yes to this. And then all of a sudden it leads to something else. So, yeah, it's been a really crazy, crazy, crazy ride.

K

Wow. So, okay. So you did the book first and it was published. The manuscript was then used as kind of a full download to create Ask Ellyn the Robot or AI Companion. And then you started the blog after that?

E

Yeah. So, we launched Ask Ellyn in the fall and I don't have any marketing dollars to put behind this at this point. That's just all a very much a labor of love. So I thought, what if we looked at breast cancer sort of through a lifestyle lens? So fitness and nutrition and wellness and mental health and intimacy and relationships and family and fertility. so that's what's starting to come together and it's really cool. I've had women from Ireland. I've had, you know, I haven't had, um, uh, contributions yet from some of them, but people have reached out from South Africa. It’s just really neat that I'm so