As a parent to an 8-year-old autistic son, every milestone, no matter how small, feels like a monumental achievement. Recently, my son began to speak simple words while this progress is significant, it does not fully encompass his communication capabilities. His ability to communicate extends far beyond verbal expression, encompassing gestures, indications, expressions, and a myriad of other forms of non-verbal communication. This realization has profoundly shaped our approach to parenting and caregiving, creating a world of opportunities and possibilities for him and our entire family.
My son’s speech level, characterized by simple words, is just one aspect of his rich and multifaceted communication repertoire. His non-verbal cues—such as gestures, facial expressions, and other indications—speak volumes about his needs, feelings, and thoughts.
As his primary caregiver, along with my parents, we have made it our mission to embrace and understand my son’s unique way of communicating. This acceptance has been pivotal in fostering a nurturing environment where he feels heard and valued. Our approach involves several key principles:
Active Observation: Understanding my son’s non-verbal communication requires active observation. This attentiveness allows us to respond appropriately and meet his requirements effectively.
Encouraging Expression: We encourage my son to express himself in any way he feels comfortable. Whether it’s through gestures, expressions, or other non-verbal means, we validate his attempts to communicate.
Consistent Engagement: Regular and consistent engagement with my son is crucial. By spending quality time with him, we build a deeper connection and a better understanding of his communication style.
Creating a Supportive Environment: A supportive and understanding environment is essential for my son’s development. We ensure that our home is a safe space where he can express himself freely without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.