DiscoverMan On FIRE Podcast with David MehlerBreaking the Patterns of Self‑Sabotage: Fear, Addiction and Worthiness
Breaking the Patterns of Self‑Sabotage: Fear, Addiction and Worthiness

Breaking the Patterns of Self‑Sabotage: Fear, Addiction and Worthiness

Update: 2025-09-11
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Many men talk about wanting a bigger life yet unconsciously sabotage their own growth. In this episode David Mailer dives into the hidden patterns — fear of failure, addiction to drama, complacency, perfectionism and misplaced priorities — that keep us stuck. He shares personal stories, practical exercises and a powerful reminder that change begins when we recognize our worth.


🧠 Key Takeaways:

- ~[01:20 ] Fear of failure and success: Our beliefs about failure and unworthiness hold us back.

- ~[04:15 ] Addiction to complacency: Settling for “good enough” is a hidden addiction that numbs your potential.

- ~[07:40 ] Busy versus productive: Workaholism and busyness can be masks for deeper fears.

- ~[09:05 ] Make it sacred: Your time, energy and attention reveal what you truly deem sacred.

- ~[11:30 ] Future projection: Jumping ahead keeps you from facing the pain of inaction.

- ~[13:45 ] Disassociating from impact: Ignoring consequences damages relationships and legacy.

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Breaking the Patterns of Self‑Sabotage: Fear, Addiction and Worthiness

Breaking the Patterns of Self‑Sabotage: Fear, Addiction and Worthiness

David Mehler