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Top 10 Things to Do When Your Marriage Is in Trouble

Top 10 Things to Do When Your Marriage Is in Trouble

Update: 2025-10-30
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How do you bring a dying marriage back to life?

In this episode David Miller explores the ten essential steps every man should take when his relationship is on the brink.

From brutal honesty and personal responsibility to sacred vows and the power of playing the long game, you’ll discover why the key to getting her back starts with getting yourself back.


Key Takeaways:

- ~[00:00 ] Conflict is a mirror; marriage forces you to face buried wounds and invites you into growth.

- ~[03:00 ] Step 1: Be honest about what’s happening; Step 2: Take ownership; Step 3: Be vulnerable.

- ~[05:00 ] Responsibility and compassion go hand in hand — stop judging and start understanding.

- ~[10:00 ] Remember your sacred vows and practise empathy; your partner’s soul needs to be seen.

- ~[14:00 ] Inner work is non‑negotiable; one person’s growth can transform the entire relationship.

- ~[19:00 ] Play the long game; resist quick fixes and hold space for your partner’s pain.


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Top 10 Things to Do When Your Marriage Is in Trouble

Top 10 Things to Do When Your Marriage Is in Trouble

David Mehler