Building Real Confidence, The Motivation Puzzle, and Understanding All Your “Parts”
Building Real Confidence, The Motivation Puzzle, and Understanding All Your “Parts”Description
Drew comes in hot today as we dig into the nitty gritty of confidence and motivation. We explore the counterintuitive idea that true confidence doesn't come from expecting success, but from being comfortable with failure. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt or felt demotivated despite external achievements, this episode might just change your perspective.
We start by dissecting what I call the "Confidence Conundrum" and how it applies to various aspects of life, from business to relationships. Then, we challenge some long-held beliefs about intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, discussing research that questions the idea that external rewards always undermine our natural interests. We wrap up with a thought-provoking exploration of Internal Family Systems theory and how understanding the different "parts" of our psyche can lead to greater self-integration. This is a grab bag episode that we had a lot of fun with, so I hope you enjoy it.
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Chapters:
00:00 Drew comes in hot
00:53 The F*ck of the Week: Confidence
21:55 Brilliant or Bullsh*t: Intrinsic vs Extrinsic Motivation
42:44 Q&A: What do you think of "parts work"?
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