In this episode of Candid Conversations, we share one of our most humbling parenting moments—a recent parent-teacher conference that didn’t go as smoothly as we were used to.

It was the first time we heard something less-than-praiseworthy about our child, and instead of spiraling into guilt or defensiveness (like we might have in our Christian days), we paused, breathed, and got curious.

We realized that when judgment is removed, curiosity becomes possible—and that changes everything. Instead of seeing our child as a reflection of our “spiritual success” or failure, we saw them as a human in progress… someone we’re meant to guide, not fix.

We reflect on how our parenting shifted after leaving Christianity—from performance and perfectionism to presence and partnership. And how learning to regulate our own nervous systems allows us to respond with compassion instead of control.

If you’ve ever parented under the pressure of being “Christ-like,” this episode will feel like a deep exhale.

If you’re ready to start breaking free from judgment-based parenting and learning how to stay grounded when your child struggles, reach out to Candi for a free hypnotherapy consultation.

Through subconscious reprogramming and nervous system regulation, you can become the calm, curious guide your child truly needs.

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