Curative Kink: Understanding the Intersection of Arousal, Shame, and Healing
Description
Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual assault, sexual trauma, and BDSM. Listener discretion is advised.
On this week's episode, Dr. Debra sits down with renowned trauma specialist Andrew Pari, a licensed clinical social worker dedicated to helping survivors of sexual trauma.
This episode explores some of the most misunderstood aspects of trauma recovery...
Curative Kink: Andrew introduces his pioneering therapeutic approach that uses role play and BDSM elements in a safe, negotiated environment to help clients gain mastery over their trauma.
The Body's Response to Trauma: The conversation addresses the physiological phenomenon of arousal during sexual assault, explaining why it is a normal, evolutionary response and not a sign of consent. Andrew shares his experience as one of the first people to publicly discuss this topic over a decade ago.
Repetition Compulsion: Learn about why people unconsciously replay their trauma and how Andrew's methods help to transform these maladaptive patterns into a path for healing.
A Message of Hope
Andrew concludes the episode with a powerful message for anyone seeking healing, emphasizing the importance of leaning into fear and finding the right guide to support your journey.
đ Connect with Andrew Pari
Website: www.saawareness.comâ
LinkedIn: â Andrew Pari
đ Learn more & register for SCRIPT Conference: thescriptconference.com
Check out the book Andrew mentioned: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
Visit MenHealing at: â www.menhealing.org