Hosts Alysse Bryson and Libby Sundgren welcome Shari Leid — connection creator, friendship expert and author of "Table for 51" — to explore the art of creating authentic connections at events and in life. Shari shares stories from her project dining with strangers in all 50 states, the philosophy behind her Flip the Box movement, and tangible strategies for designing intentional communities that go beyond small talk. From courageous conversations to thoughtful event planning tips and the value of starting “ugly,” this episode is a masterclass in meaningful moments. 

Timestamps:  

[00:00 ] - Shari’s 50-state dinner journey & memorable meals 

[02:15 ] - How the project was organized: logistics, finding strangers, and event planning insights 

[06:16 ] - Overcoming social anxiety: sparking deep conversations with new people 

[09:23 ] - Most surprising foods and standout state experiences 

[11:00 ] - Staying connected & building bridges across divides 

[13:31 ] - Event planner takeaways: designing intentional, welcoming communities 

[20:05 ] - Tips for maximizing connection and inclusion at events 

[24:13 ] - Generational shifts: teaching connection in the age of screens 

[26:36 ] - Keeping the magic (and community) going post-event 

[28:03 ] - Most memorable swag—and the power of a simple cookie 

[29:32 ] - Flip the Box: turning a personal story into a national movement 

[32:10 ] - Planning an unforgettable book launch in NYC 

[37:24 ] - What’s next for Shari: professional speaking, retreats, and connection projects 

[42:17 ] - Closing thoughts on courage, connection, favorite party songs, and putting yourself back on the dance floor 

Resources & Links: 

-Shari Leid: Website, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, X 

-More from Shari  

-"Table for 51" Launch Party Planner: Lee Ramsay Events  

-"Table for 51": Book & Launch Party 

-Alysse & Libby: Bios & LinkedIn 

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