Do We Need to Lower Our Standards?

Do We Need to Lower Our Standards?

Update: 2024-05-151
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When we explain to our partners and families that we need them to pitch in around the house, we sometimes hear back that the real problem is our too-high standards. That if we actually think "doing the laundry" means FOLDING the laundry, instead of leaving it in the dryer, that that is just too high a bar.

Eve Rodsky, author of FAIR PLAY, suggests that partners establish a "minimum standard of care" for household duties. But how does that get set? And is that really all it takes?

In this episode Amy and Margaret discuss:


  • How to use "community standards" to determine minimum standards of care

  • The tired old idea that women have impossible standards

  • Why it might be your system that's the problem, and not your partner


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Do We Need to Lower Our Standards?

Do We Need to Lower Our Standards?

Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson