Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James! 

Topics we explore in this episode:

• Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work


• Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating


• Stigma and misconceptions around sex work


• Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests


• How to be a fabulous first-time client


• Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home


• How to be an active, supportive submissive

Who is Sir James?

Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.

Where to find more Sir James

Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia

Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/ 

Email: SirJamesFetish@gmail.com

Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

• Resource: Sex Menu
  
  • An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)
  
  
  • This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes
  
  
  • Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now
  
  
  • Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework
  
  
  
  


• Fetish House
  
  • The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM
  
  
  • Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!
  
  
  • We love their extensive Etiquette Guide 
  
  
  
  

• Tryst
  
  • Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more
  
  
  
  

• Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish
  
  • A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM
    
    
    
    
  
  
  
  

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