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E189// Is that normal? Discerning through marital disappointment vs. destructive abuse

E189// Is that normal? Discerning through marital disappointment vs. destructive abuse

Update: 2024-09-18
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Understanding Emotional Abuse: Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages


In this episode of the Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, I'm delving into the critical difference between disappointing and destructive marriages. Building on last week's discussion about emotional abuse, I reference Leslie Vernick's book, 'Emotionally Destructive Marriage,' to provide clarity. We explore what it means to feel emotionally unsafe and identify when it crosses into abuse. We'll also discuss the importance of fully disclosing your situation to a therapist for proper guidance and support, even if it means going alone. This episode aims to offer insights and resources for those struggling in emotionally abusive relationships and emphasizes that you do not have to live in such a nightmare, even as a Christian. Stay tuned as we navigate these heavy but essential topics together.


 


00:00 Introduction: The Fear of Speaking Up


00:29 Understanding Emotional Abuse


02:44 Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages


03:36 Real-Life Examples and Quotes


05:24 Therapist's Role and Client Disclosure


10:59 Mandated Reporting and Emotional Safety


15:14 Concluding Thoughts and Resources









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E189// Is that normal? Discerning through marital disappointment vs. destructive abuse

E189// Is that normal? Discerning through marital disappointment vs. destructive abuse

Beatriz Vargas | Christian Wife & Marriage Coach