E194// 3 Steps to diffuse an argument today!

E194// 3 Steps to diffuse an argument today!

Update: 2025-11-18
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In this episode, I give you some tips on how you can put defensiveness aside and respond with grace when a situation gets challenging! We explore the emotions behind defensiveness and how to navigate them effectively by learning the three key steps to deescalate an argument. I also share how validating feelings and communicating from a place of understanding can make a huge difference in your relationships. 


00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back


01:13 A Personal Story of Defensiveness


02:28 Reflecting on Emotional Reactions


05:52 Practical Steps to Deescalate Arguments


09:15 Final Thoughts and Announcements


 


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E194// 3 Steps to diffuse an argument today!

E194// 3 Steps to diffuse an argument today!

Beatriz Vargas | Marriage & Family Therapist