DiscoverLet’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating AdviceEP 575: Q&A: How I Knew He Was the One, Long-Distance Love, and Becoming Secure in Relationships (Part 1)
EP  575: Q&A: How I Knew He Was the One, Long-Distance Love, and Becoming Secure in Relationships (Part 1)

EP 575: Q&A: How I Knew He Was the One, Long-Distance Love, and Becoming Secure in Relationships (Part 1)

Update: 2025-09-01
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Wow… I can’t believe I get to share this with you all. 🥹

In today’s episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my love story with Robert—my now husband (still feels wild to say that!). So many of you asked me: How did you two meet? When did you know he was the one? What did you do differently this time around?


This is Part 1 of a very special two-part series where I’m walking you through the exact journey from feeling hopeless in dating—convinced I’d just be the “cool aunt with a bunch of dogs”—to creating the securely attached, loving marriage I’m living in now.


Inside this episode, you’ll hear:


  • How Robert and I first met (all the way back in college!) and the wild way we reconnected a decade later
  • The moment I knew he was the one for me
  • The key conversations that set the foundation for a healthy, securely attached relationship
  • How I navigated long-distance while still honoring my needs and not self-abandoning
  • Why developing my non-negotiables and secure identity changed everything for my love life
  • What I did differently after almost giving up on love—and how surrender + healing gave me the hope to try again


I want this episode to be a reminder: no matter how hopeless you’ve felt in dating, it’s never too late to heal, to rewire your attachment style, and to attract the love you deserve. Your securely attached love story is possible.


💍 Make sure you tune in Wednesday for Part 2, where I’ll take you inside my wedding day—what it was really like emotionally, and everything I learned from that milestone moment.


👉 If you’re ready to do the work to attract your own healthy, securely attached relationship, apply now to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program. This is the only way to work with me, and it’s helped over 800 people create the love they deserve.


Click Here to Apply Now and Start Your Journey to Secure Love


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EP  575: Q&A: How I Knew He Was the One, Long-Distance Love, and Becoming Secure in Relationships (Part 1)

EP 575: Q&A: How I Knew He Was the One, Long-Distance Love, and Becoming Secure in Relationships (Part 1)