In this episode, Pastor James sits down with Terrence, Derek, and Anthony for part two of a timely conversation that sparked debate online about men, relationships, and what “growth” really means.

They respond to last week’s women’s panel and the viral “teacher/go higher” moment, clarifying what got misunderstood. This is about alignment, pace, purpose, and the difference between contentment and complacency.

Pastor James and the panel unpack what “I’ll push you” should mean in a healthy relationship, why it can land as “you’re not enough,” and how couples can avoid the trap of mothering, micromanaging, or trying to change someone they chose. The episode also goes deeper on spiritual leadership, emotional safety, and what men actually need to feel safe enough to open up.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to tell peace from stagnation


• What partnership looks like when both people grow


• Why emotional safety is a track record, not a speech


• How to pick with clarity instead of chemistry-only

Comment below: Should a partner “push” you — or accept you as you are?

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