In this episode, Kreed explores the concept of 'hardened hearts'—the emotional armor we build to protect ourselves from pain and the impact it has on our relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, she discusses how this protective mechanism can lead to estrangement and disconnection, while also emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and the courage it takes to open our hearts again. The episode encourages listeners to recognize their own protective instincts and to approach healing with compassion and understanding.

Takeaways

- A hardened heart forms as a protective mechanism.

- Softness and vulnerability are signs of courage, not weakness.

- Recognizing protector parts can help in understanding estranged loved ones.

- Love and pain share the same doorway; closing one closes both.

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