We all wrestle with self-doubt—that little voice that says we're not enough, no matter how much we accomplish. In this powerful conversation, Mr. Jay unpacks why our brains default to the negative, how insecurities sabotage our confidence, and what practical tools can help us build real self-worth. From setting daily intentions to redefining success, you'll walk away with strategies to silence your inner critic and own your confidence at work, at home, and within yourself.

Key takeaways to listen for 

• Why our brains naturally default to negative thoughts 

• The difference between cockiness and true confidence 

• Daily intention practices (including the "word of the day" method) 

• The connection between gratitude and genuine happiness 

• How coping mechanisms from childhood can sabotage adult relationships 

• One simple self-affirmation to use every time you make a mistake

 

Resources mentioned in this episode

• The Science of Happiness Course

• Mel Robbins

 

About Mr Jay

Mr Jay is a certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Relationship Coach with over 20 years of experience in mental health, counseling, and education. Holding degrees in Therapeutic Recreation, Theater, Psychology and a Master's in Teaching, he combines academic expertise with compassionate guidance to help individuals heal from trauma, build self-worth, and strengthen relationships. An author and lifelong learner, Mr. Jay is dedicated to empowering others through transformative tools, practical advice, and unwavering support.

Connect with Mr Jay

• Website: Mr Jay Relationship Coach

• LinkedIn: Mr Jay Relationship Coach

• Facebook: MrJayRelationshipCoach 

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