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In this solo end of year episode, Matthew reflects on the year that was and unpacks how goals, emotions, mindset, and preparation all shape the outcomes we negotiate in life.

Drawing from law, mediation, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, spirituality, and everyday human experience, Matthew explores:

• Why goal setting and negotiation are inseparable
• How confidence, visualisation, and inner-game practices (like meditation, prayer, self-care, and BJJ) elevate negotiation performance
• SMART Goals & OKRs explained in real-world, practical terms
• How time, clarity, and relevance support goal achievement
• The hidden role of procrastination, why we all fall into it, and how tiny steps can break the cycle
• Why showing up, again and again might be the most underrated negotiation strategy
• How repetition builds competence, and competence builds confidence

As we wrap up 2025, this episode sets the tone for a powerful, intentional, and goal driven 2026. Whether you're negotiating contracts, community outcomes, family discussions, or your own personal growth, this episode will help you anchor your goals, harness your emotions, and step confidently into every negotiation.

If everything in life is a negotiation, learning to set goals well might be your greatest advantage.

🎧 Listen now, subscribe, and get ready for an exciting 2026 with new guests, new insights, and stronger negotiations than ever.

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