You’ve been following the Lord for over a decade.

You’re mature in your faith, and when you meet someone new, you’re excited. Maybe even thinking, Why wait? I’ve already been waiting 10+ years!

But here’s the thing—jumping in too fast can lead to heartbreak or missed red flags.

In this episode, I’m sharing excerpts from my e-book, The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook.

This is your guide to navigating the early stages of courtship with wisdom and grace, ensuring you’re protecting your heart and honouring God along the way.

I’ll be reading three chapters that will completely transform how you think about vulnerability, pacing, and emotional safety in relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re "all in" way too quickly, this is the episode for you.

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Grab your copy of The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook for just $13: Get it here.


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