When it comes to first dates... are we unintentionally being dishonest about what our CORE VALUES are?  

Most people say they value the usual things – honesty, integrity, family.... but my guest today would argue that a person's TRUE values are exposed in the seemingly mundane content of their lives.   

Now, how do we quantify said mundane content?  

Here to show us and tell us is KEVIN PAULRAJ, Mindset Coach.  

Marked by profound challenges—an abusive childhood, being kicked out of home, battling addiction, and enduring crippling anxiety.  

Through these trials, Kevin found resilience and a deeper purpose.   

He now sees his journey as a platform to inspire others, firmly believing in his mission to share his story and wisdom.   

His goal is clear: to guide others towards lives of growth, love, and abundance, emphasizing the transformative power of personal discovery and resilience  

We discuss at length...  

• The intersection of faith and personal development – neither of us fit into mainstream Christianity...  

  
  



• Why values are neither good nor bad – they just ARE.  

  
  



• Using values as a framework for compatibility in the dating game.  

  
  



• Creating the perfect conditions for meeting your Person using obliquity.  

  
  



• Confidence, authenticity and resilience in your single season and so much more!  

  
  

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