In this conversation, Francesca Hogi and Elle J. discuss the challenges and realizations that come with approaching milestone birthdays, particularly focusing on relationships, self-worth, and the importance of connection. Elle shares her journey of seeking a committed relationship after years of prioritizing her career, the impact of COVID on her social life, and her efforts to engage more with others. They explore the complexities of vulnerability, the significance of self-love, and the need to redefine relationships beyond romantic connections. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, asking for help, and recognizing the value of all forms of love in life. In this conversation, Francesca Hogi guides Elle J. through the complexities of self-compassion, personal growth, and the fear of change. They explore the importance of embracing challenges, the emotional processing of change, and the narratives we tell ourselves about our worth and relationships. The discussion emphasizes the power of self-discovery and the need to change our beliefs to foster healthier relationships and a more authentic self. In this conversation, Elle J. and Francesca Hogi explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on self-love, breaking unhealthy patterns, and the importance of intentional dating. They discuss how personal narratives shape romantic experiences and emphasize the need for self-acceptance and clarity in what one truly desires in a partner. The dialogue encourages listeners to challenge their beliefs about love and relationships, fostering a healthier approach to dating and self-worth.

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Edited and produced by Bex Carlos and Alex Rogpe

Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta

Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi