👻 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re talking ghosting. Yep, it even happens to us.

From sudden silence to disappearing unicorns, we’re spilling the tea on all the ghosting oofs that left us dazed, confused, and maybe a little emotionally hungover. Ghosting isn’t just for newbies—whether you’ve been in the lifestyle for one week or one year, it still stings.

We’re breaking down:

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  The types of ghosting (and yes, some are worse than others)

  
  


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  Why it happens (hint: it’s not always about you)

  
  


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  How we’ve handled it (sometimes with grace… sometimes with tequila)

  
  


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  What to say (or not say) when someone vanishes mid-vibe

  
  

🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

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🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Boo! You Got Ghosted - How to Handle Ghosting Like a Pro https://www.vanillaswingers.com/boo-you-got-ghosted-now-what-how-to-handle-ghosting/

🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/

🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj

🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv

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