Ep. 46- Is This a Scam? 

Lindsay  00:00

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Lindsay00:42
Is this a scam? You know what? I'm getting that question a lot these days. So welcome to the Career Design Podcast. I'm Lindsay Mustain. I want to answer this question for you. Because a lot of our lives we have been told like that's a scam, people are always out to try to get something from you. Guys, I'm going to tell you, if you listen to me for more than a hot second, you know that I have 1000s of success stories, okay. And in fact, I have a very strange business operating model, which is that when you work with me, I hope you don't ever need me again. Now, when you want to go to the next level in your career, let's talk. But for the most part, my goal is not actually to be here to try to get you to be a lifetime customer. My goal is get you out the door get you massive success, and then you can send me all your friends. Okay, I have a very strange business model. And the reason why is that I don't want to be in the business I'm in. I know, let me just be really clear here. That's that's a strange, provocative thing to say. But I'm really like, want to be very transparent that the what I have to teach you is a failure of a system that has designed you to fail 99.6% of the time. Now, I was a part of that system. I mean, it was Amazon's most visible employee, I hired 10,000 people. Do you know the percentage of times that I said, No, it's over 99%. I said no to somebody 99% of time. In fact, I did a training yesterday and somebody came on, they said Lindsey, you said no to me and Amazon. And I was like, Okay, let's talk about that. And she said, in fact, you had an actual conversation with me. This is before I started my entrepreneurial journey. And you said, this is a no right now. I want you to it's not a no for forever. It's a no for this job. But honestly, I see that there's more for you. And so I want you to keep going. And I gave her some tools. And seriously, she came back and said she's actually increased her salary three times over. Now, I love the really clear, I had never actually talked to her since that moment. So this was like an unprecedented testimonial, I have to pull it out. So I can share with you guys. But that message was so powerful to me, because I told her she told me this after I told the story about being and perpetuating the system that actually causes you to think that something's wrong with you. So I don't want to be in this business. Okay, so in the meantime, while I'm working to correct the system, I'm going to teach you how to hack it for your advantage. That is my big goal. Okay. So like, that's the first belief that you have to believe here. Now when I say it, I'm going to destroy it. I'm going to destroy your perceptions of what the system is. And I'm going to say a lot of us we're kind of like playing in the matrix, we don't understand that we've actually been perpetuating this is what I had this this was like, so, so powerful for me. So let me tell you how I got to this point, I was sitting at Amazon and I was recruiting for a job. I had like three people in the world that we're qualified for it. This job is in Singapore. And I got a message from one of the the only woman I was interviewing and she said, I just want to let you know how much of an asshole you guys treated me like I mean, she said it a lot, much nicer way that I'm saying it. And I would never consider working for your company. And I know this is like really important to you. So it really shocked me that this was how the behavior was. And when I saw that, like I like First off, I turned completely red. I was mortified. And then you what I did, I cried. I cried. I mean, it was a Sunday. Like right now I'm recording this on a Sunday was a Sunday, I was sitting on my couch, my kids are running around. And I sat there and I just sobbed. I just saw. And it was like the most powerful moment when the realization of my paradigm completely shifted. And I realized that I was part of the problem that I was working in a system that actually is designed to make sure that you fail the majority of the time that we don't actually care about you were you are lucky to even get a shot to talk to us. That was the positioning. Notice how much that's changed now that we can't hire anybody, by the way. Like the fact that I had that conversation. I was like, Oh God, I hope it goes well. I've had to learn, you know how to we really should treat candidates which was we should always treat them with dignity and respect. After talking to millions. I mean, we're dealing with over a million resumes deal. That's a lot of people. That's just my people too. And like if you didn't go all the people my team it is millions. We always want to treat people the highest level of respect because I remember being there. I remember what it was like to be turned on. I remember it was like to be stuck. So when I got this message, I was like, Oh, I mean I was just sobbing and then I got really fucking pissed. The point where I immediately escalated it, I immediately escalated it. I sent it off. And then you know what I did? I wrote my resignation notice, let me be really clear at the time at a stay at home husband, I was the only one making money, I did not have the money to leave my job. I did not have the ability or understanding what I would do next. I just knew that I could no longer sell my soul for a paycheck and it could no longer be a part of the same system that not only broke me but if you ever heard my story, broke the story. Broke my family. My dad was laid off, you know, like, I've watched this like, it's not just me, it's like a generational thing. My dad and then me and I'm watching all these people go through with the COVID like we are going through this change so when I say it's a scam, like I want you to like you know, I hope it's a get rich quick scam, rather than get rich slow scam because that's actually what you're playing by. No, we can dramatically Quantum Leap your results because the thing is the bottom line that you have been told is that if you go to school, and if you work really hard, you're gonna get like the magic Fastpass at Disneyland and get to the front the line and that's a big fat fucking lie. Okay, but I'm gonna I'm gonna reframe this for you. Okay, have you ever heard the saying breakfast is the most important meal of the day? Breakfast is the most important meal today. Right? We've heard that how many times now? Okay, well, do you know who came up with breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Cereal companies. That industry and so when you think about it now, cereals also, like not genetically but engineered. Like we have food chemists that engineer the food to break down so that you were hungry in 90 minutes. And what do you eat again? Usually more cereal. There's a reason why we don't have cereal in my house. Okay. So they've told you Hey, not only is this most important meal, here's the solution and you're going to need it a lot. Okay, so if there's ever been a fucking scam, it's your cereal. First off, okay. Now, here's me saying hey, listen, I'd like to get you massive results. And I don't want you to ever really need me again. Is that completely different? Yes. Does it sound like a scam? I can totally see why. If you've ever listen to me for more than a heart like a hot second, you know that my heart's in this and I backup everything I say with either science or proof or testimony. We have proof of concept we print out graduates. There is no better person in the world that does this than me. Okay, and I can say that I am the greatest of all time I get to be the goat in this I am the greatest of all time. Why? Because I am a student of my craft. Okay. So yes, we can Quantum Leap your results. But the first reprogramming I need you to go to you're like is this scam? Or is this too good to be true? I get that. Like let me tell you somebody told me this at that point in my life. I was like, Holy crap. Are you kidding me? So do you mind if I change your life here? I'm gonna change your life. So tune in, lean in. Listen to me here now. Stephen Covey dfcm Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Oh my god, this was such a massive reprogramming, I had the best foundation of corporate experience with my very first job. And I learned the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, sometimes Highly Effective People, I went through their development program. In fact, I was being certified to be a trainer before company got where I got laid off. And I learned all the shit that I learned about what it's like to be unemployed and nearly lose everything. I was about to go through their facilitator training because it was so beautiful. Okay, and if you haven't read that book, another book, I highly recommend Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. But he has one of the habits is begin with the end in mind. And really what Stephen Covey says there are two sources of creation, we will be like, What are you doing? Okay, on this, like, how many of you are like, what's your metrics? What are you quantifying what like, I'm trying to tell you,