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Episode 174: 5 LEVELS OF TAMING A WILD YOUTH ROOM

Episode 174: 5 LEVELS OF TAMING A WILD YOUTH ROOM

Update: 2025-11-06
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There's nothing worse than speaking to an out of control room full of students.

In this episode, I explain my 5 levels, escalating to most effective, way to control a wild room with your teaching content and approach. Be sure to stick around to hear how Marvel has cracked the attention span conundrum.



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🕰️TIMECODES

00:00 How to Teach a Wild Room

00:48 I’m a glutton for chaos

01:56 Level 1: Tell Them

03:50 Level 2: Know Them

07:40 Level 3: Include Them

08:59 Level 4: Engage Them

10:44 Level 5: Teach Them



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TRANSCRIPT

00:00:00 :07 - 00:00:24 :17

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

You know, that moment that you're trying to teach, and two kids start whispering to each other, someone's throwing a sock, and somehow some how slime is involved. You know, early on in my youth ministry days, I knew that the students were the problem. But over my last 15 years, I began to wonder what if part of the chaos is actually my fault?



00:00:24 :19 - 00:00:45 :13

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

Today, I'm going to be breaking down the five levels of taming a wild youth through and at the end of the show, make sure that you stick around, because I am going to share with you the shift that Marvel understands that I saw, that I began to start to see students truly lean in without needing to raise my voice.



00:00:45 :16 - 00:01:11 :05

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

Welcome, everybody, to the Hybrid Ministry show. Well, hey everybody, welcome to another episode of the Hybrid Ministry Show. Today we're addressing this question. How do you handle disruptions during teaching time? I'm tired of stopping my lessons to redirect a few, and in this episode, I want to detail and outline my five levels of taming a wild room. And here's what you got to understand is that I actually invite and embrace chaos.



00:01:11 :09 - 00:01:32 :08

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

Like in our space. We could very easily, and let's be honest, probably even more, I probably even make a little bit more sense for us to do it in rows, but instead we're a middle school heavy on Wednesday night, midweek, type of context. And we put them around round tables. And last year we increased our chair intake around the tables from 8 to 10.



00:01:32 :08 - 00:01:52 :21

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

So we're inviting even more chaos to sit around each of those tables. That being said, it's a calculated risk that I try to facilitate and operate with the idea of community, worth and willing to take that risk so that we can get the better. And on the other side, however, that does mean that sometimes we do face a wild room.



00:01:52 :21 - 00:02:12 :13

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

So with that being said, let's dive into my five different levels. Level number one is this tell them. All right. Tell them to stop talking and I get it. And that and that question you're saying like I'm tired of doing that. Now, if you are doing that on a regular basis, then maybe some of these other levels are going to be worth your while.



00:02:12 :13 - 00:02:31 :10

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

But to start it off, if you have a wild room, you just need to very simply like be firm. And actually it's interesting because I asked a group of, table leaders that I have in my youth ministry, that try to actually help keep some of my students on track and keep some of our, our, lessons, like on the rails, so to speak.



00:02:31 :10 - 00:02:48 :26

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

And they were asking me the other day, like, how do you do that? How do you lean in to kind of that with, with students? And I ask you guys, do you guys think that I mean, like, do you consider me personally mean? And they're like, no, not at all. And I was like, but am I able and willing to be firm when I need to know?



00:02:48 :26 - 00:03:12 :24

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

Like, oh yeah, definitely. And so you have to understand that if you're the youth pastor, maybe you're young, maybe you're afraid of like, people thinking you mean students not liking you. Like you can still be firm and they can still like you? Those two things are allowed to be the same thing at the same time. Right? And another thing that I've actually even done is like, I've gone directly up to some of the bigger tables, in the last couple of weeks.



00:03:12 :24 - 00:03:26 :27

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

And I said, hey, listen, do you guys want me to split you into two tables? Like, no, no, no, please don't do that. Please don't do that. And I'm like, great, I will not. But I'm also going to expect you to act like adults, which means I am not going to ask you guys multiple times to be quiet.



00:03:26 :27 - 00:03:40 :29

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

So if I do have to ask you to be quiet, then I will begin to split the tables. But if I can trust you, and if you can lock in, if you can engage, then I'll let you stay together. And that that has actually really worked really well for some of our tables. Because you know how it is.



00:03:41 :00 - 00:04:16 :12

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

You got a big table. You look over there, this is what you get. It wasn't me, it was them. It was their zoom. It was then. It wasn't me. So the second level is know them, right? No. These students know how they learn. Right. And one of the things that we have leaned into consistently is I cannot tell you in youth ministry, the last time that I spoke my entire message without any sort of gap or without any sort of break, like youth pastor, if you're trying to teach for 30 minutes straight, like, what are you doing?



00:04:16 :14 - 00:04:53 :21

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

Like, you know that your students don't learn that way. In fact, if you look here at the Pyramid of learning, auditory lecture style based learning is the least effective of all the styles of learning. So why are you trying to keep their attention with a lecture style message for 30 or greater minutes? In fact, there's like the whole theory that, Gen Z and Gen Alpha's attention span is less than seven seconds, and we get that data from click through rates and like, bounce off rates from websites like people spend only on average seven seconds or less on a website.



00:04:53 :28 - 00:05:14 :04

Nick Clason | Hybrid Ministry

And so the theory is that they have a shorter attention span than a goldfish. But the reality is, is that they know within seven seconds or less if this thing is going to be worth thei

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Episode 174: 5 LEVELS OF TAMING A WILD YOUTH ROOM

Episode 174: 5 LEVELS OF TAMING A WILD YOUTH ROOM

Nick Clason