How Your Identity Was Formed Without Your Permission

You weren’t born thinking you’re “too much,” “not enough,” or “the one who always messes it up.” Those beliefs were built around you.

In this episode, Roger breaks down how your identity was quietly shaped by childhood dynamics, culture, family rules, and unspoken expectations—long before you had the language to question any of it. You’ll see that you’re not broken; you’ve been programmed. And what was programmed can be rewritten.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• How your family, culture, and early experiences wrote “rules” about who you’re allowed to be


• The difference between who you truly are and the role you learned to play to feel safe or loved


• What identity loops are, and how they keep proving your old story “right”


• A simple set of questions to map the early messages that still drive your decisions today

This podcast is the audio companion to the book Unshakable You. Pair this episode with Chapter 2 to deepen your awareness and start seeing your current identity as conditioning—not destiny.

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