Episode 20: On the Power of Liking and Being Liked | Guest Therapist: Ben Thompson, LMFT
Description
What is the emotional difference in being “loved” versus being “liked?” Does it really matter? Well, we think it does!
In this episode of Therapists’ Take, Carrie and Josh are going to discuss the nuances and purposes of these emotional experiences and why they matter to relationships. Joining them in this discussion will be marriage therapist and author of the book “Liked: Finding the Acceptance that Matters Most,” Ben Thompson, LMFT. Below are the chapters for this episode:
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00:00 - Hi, Carrie!
01:55 - Introducing Ben Thompson, LMFT
03:56 - Structure of this Episode
04:38 - About the "Liked" Book
07:55 - Carrie's Pediatrician Story
11:10 - LOVE vs LIKED
20:23 - LOVE GETS THE GLORY!
23:26 - THE RELATIONAL UNSUNG HERO
27:10 - Liking Self Comes First.
31:33 - Ben's Writing Journey
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Book: “Liked” by Ben Thompson, LMFT - https://amzn.to/4aYy33u
Video: “Three Fears that Prevent Self-Acceptance” featuring Ben Thompson, LMFT - https://youtu.be/tGmP-up679I?si=nO-j_v0TcNcR2zXf
Book: "ScreamFree Parenting" by Hal Runkel - https://amzn.to/3QxYlC7
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Follow, like, subscribe and see more great content here. http://www.linktr.we/familysolutionsok
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Therapy Resources:
Therapist Directory: https://www.psychologytoday.com
Betrayal Trauma Therapist Directory: https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357
The Gottman Institute (Relationship Research) - https://www.gottman.com/
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About the Hosts
Carrie and Josh are both licensed marital and family therapists (LMFT) that specialize in betrayal trauma recovery. You can read more about them and the work they do on their practice website -https://www.familysolutionsok.com.
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Additionally, check out Mary & Josie’s new podcast by Family Solutions Media called, “Are You in session?” In this podcast, Mary & Josie welcome you into their minds, friendship, and their ever “shrinking” world. You can find it on YouTube (@RecoveryTV4u), Apple Podcast, Spotify, and a variety of other podcast platforms.
And, stay tuned for the newest Family Solutions Media podcast to enter the podcasting universe - Poetry in Layers. In this podcast, therapist, author, and spoken word artist, Carl Patterson, will perform a series of poems with a unique mental health flavor. You don’t want to miss it. So stay tuned.
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Equipment Used & Other Amazon Links:
Mic Stands - https://amzn.to/46o4So6
Rode Pod Mic - https://amzn.to/3Rsw5Sz
Pyle Mixer Board - https://amzn.to/3ZsJU5g
iRig Pre 2 - https://amzn.to/3ZpCPm9
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