Healing & Becoming — Episode 254: SAFE — Psychological Safety & Attachment with Jessica Baum

Guest:Jessica Baum, LMHC — Psychotherapist, Author & Relationship Expert

Main Topic: Her new book SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships* and deep work around attachment styles & relational safety.

 Guest Bio & Credentials

 Jessica Baum is a licensed mental health counselor with extensive clinical experience in attachment theory, trauma, codependency, and relational healing. ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][1])

 She’s the founder of **Be Self-full®** and The Relationship Institute of Palm Beach. Her work includes coaching, therapy, and courses globally. ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][1])

Jessica’s previous book *Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love* has helped many understand their relational patterns. *SAFE* is her newest work. ([Transformation Counselling][2])

  Key Features of SAFE

SAFE is a science-informed guide to building inner security, emotional safety, and healthier relational intimacy. ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][3])

 Explores how we protect ourselves—defensive patterns, old wounds, avoidance or anxiety—without realizing how these are holding us back from connection. ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][3])

 Contains somatic practices and “embodied” tools: helping you move from survival mode to peace, safety, and trust. ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][3])

Helps readers understand their attachment style (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized) and how neurobiology + relationship history shape those patterns. ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][4])

  Episode Discussion Points

1. What “psychological safety” really means & why so many relationships lack it.

2. How childhood, past attachments, and relational trauma show up in adult relationships—even in business or friendships.

3. The difference between “fixing what’s broken” vs “uncovering what’s been protecting you.”

4. How to recognize triggers from your attachment style and how to respond rather than react.

5. Practical steps & mindset shifts for building more secure, safe connection—with self and others.

  Get Her Book

Grab a copy of SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships (pre-order or release) here:

[SAFE by Jessica Baum on Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Safe-Attachment-Informed-Building-Secure-Relationships/dp/B0DW5H76TP) ([Amazon][5])

  Call to Action

If this episode resonated with you, do the following:

Order Jessica’s book and begin practicing relational safety in your daily life.

Reach out to me via email:[hello@tuesdaywithtamika.com] — tell me you listened to *SAFE* and want help applying the tools.

Use the keyword “SAFE” in your message for a special 10% discount off your first three healing sessions.

  Connect With Jessica & Tamika

Jessica Baum:

 Website / Coaching: [BeSelfFull.com](https://www.beselffull.com/) ([Jessica Baum, LMHC][1])

Instagram: [@jessicabaumlmhc](https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc) ([Instagram][6])

SAFE Book Info: [Penguin Random House description of *SAFE*](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/761194/safe-by-jessica-baum-lmhc/) ([PenguinRandomhouse.com][7])

Coach Tamika:

Email: [hello@tuesdaywithtamika.com](mailto:hello@tuesdaywithtamika.com)

Instagram / Social: @Tamika\_Thomas\_ etc.

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