In this episode, our hosts dive into a framework for collaborative problem-solving with peers, emphasizing the power of dialogue and understanding in building strong peer relationships.

Topics in thie episode:

🌟 The Power of Dialogue:

Abby and Alfi explore the significance of dialogue in peership and how it fosters understanding and connection, drawing inspiration from Mortimer Adler's concept of the "meeting of minds."

🔍 Recognizing Perceptual Blindness:

Alfi introduces the concept of perceptual blindness through Daniel Simons' "Invisible Gorilla" experiment, highlighting how our goals shape our perception and the importance of peer dialogue in uncovering blind spots.

🗣️ Three Conversation Flow:

A deep dive into the collaborative problem-solving framework used in their courses, consisting of three iterative conversations that promote goal setting, problem-solving, and reflection. Abby and Alfi share how this approach helped their students and themselves achieve meaningful progress.

📈 Personal Milestones:

Our hosts discuss the importance of setting and reassessing personal milestones, sharing stories from their students' experiences, including overcoming fears and embracing growth.

🧠 Principles of Effective Dialogue:

Abby and Alfi outline five core principles of effective dialogue:

1. Embrace Openness and Reciprocity


2. Seek to Understand Before Being Understood


3. Acknowledge and Navigate Emotional Reactions


4. Utilize Dialogue for Reflective and Constructive Feedback


5. Promote Inclusivity and Diversity of Thought

🤝 Personal Reflections on Peership:

Abby and Alfi reflect on their own experiences with peership, discussing how their different approaches and perspectives have enriched their collaboration and personal growth.

📣 Special Announcement:

The SenseMakers Club is now open for Founders membership! Starting in June, the club will feature daily discussion groups led by trained facilitators. A special event, the SenseMakers Salon, will be held on May 31st, offering a preview of the club's unique, cross-pollinating discussions.

💬 Final Thoughts:

Our hosts encourage listeners to engage in new or rekindled conversations, emphasizing the transformative power of dialogue. They also share personal updates on their own journeys of making sense of themselves.

Takeaways for Our Sensemakers:

• The transformative power of effective dialogue in personal growth and peer relationships.


• Practical insights into setting, pursuing, and reflecting on personal milestones.


• Encouragement to engage with peers for mutual understanding and support.

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