“Life is short, have an affair.” That’s the tagline of Ashley Madison, the infamous online dating service that caters to married people who are looking to commit infidelity. Ever since its launch in 2002, it has been the subject of endless controversy, culminating in a widely reported data breech in 2015. A Netflix documentary series titled Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies, and Scandal recently premiered and it is fascinating! In today’s show we’re going to dive into this series and talk all about infidelity, including why so many people cheat in the first place.

I am joined once again by Ashley Weller (who bears no relation to Ashley Madison). She is a Human Sexuality and Health Psychology Professor at Chapman University in Southern California. She also has a podcast called What’s your Position that tackles issues surrounding sexuality, relationships, life, and love from a comedic yet educational point of view.

Some of the specific topics we explore include:

• How do men’s and women’s reasons for infidelity differ?


• Why are so many people willing to risk everything in order to have an affair?


• What impact did the Ashley Madison hack have on the company and its users?


• Why does Ashley Madison seem more popular than ever despite the hack that destroyed so many people’s lives?

You can find Ashley on Instagram and check out more of her work by visiting her Linktree.

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