What do young adults today want from sex and relationships? And how is this different compared to generations past? To answer these questions, we’re going to dive into The State of Dating Report, a collaborative scientific analysis from the Kinsey Institute and Feeld, the dating app for the curious. We’re going to discuss why younger adults are having less sex overall but more kinky sex, how preferences for different types of relationships vary across generations, and more.

I am joined by Dr. Nicole McNichols an Associate Teaching Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of Washington.  Nicole is the co-author of the textbook “Human Sexuality In A Diverse Society” and author of the forthcoming book “You Could Be Having Better Sex.”

Some of the specific topics we discuss in this episode include:

• Why Gen Z is having less sex and fewer relationships compared to generations past.


• Why younger adults are more interested in monogamy than older adults.


• Why kinky sex is on the rise in Gen Z.


• How the sexual fantasies of younger and older adults compare.


• Why rates of LGBTQ+ identification are rising among young adults.

You can learn more about Nicole’s work on her website, and be sure to check out her videos on TikTok as well.

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