What happens when the life you thought was perfect turns out to be perfectly shut down?

Today’s guest, Xanet Pailet, is a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, and founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats — but her journey didn’t start in the world of pleasure and connection. She started in a 26-year sexless marriage while building a successful legal career — and it wasn’t until she reached the age of 50 that she experienced her first real sexual awakening, a moment that changed the course of her life forever. Passionate Intimacy Retreats

In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, Xanet and Robert B. Foster dive into:

🔥 Why so many relationships become disconnected long before couples admit it
🔥 How shame, trauma, and disconnection live in the body — not just the mind
🔥 What it takes to restore emotional safety, desire, and true intimacy
🔥 Why pleasure is your birthright — not a luxury
🔥 How healing your relationship with your body transforms every part of your life
🔥 Practical tools couples and individuals can use today to deepen connection

Xanet’s work blends psychology, somatic healing, tantra, and real-world experience to help people break free from patterns of numbness, avoidance, and emotional shutdown. She’s helped hundreds of couples reignite passion, repair trust, and find joy in connection again. Passionate Intimacy Retreats+1

This episode isn’t just about relationships —
it’s about coming home to your own body, your own desires, and your own power.

Whether you’re struggling with connection, curious about embodied healing, or ready to expand how you think about intimacy and vulnerability, this conversation will shift your perspective — and your life.

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