In today’s episode I talk to Matthias Schwenteck about:

💖 Somatic consent and intimacy coaching to reclaim autonomy, boundaries and erotic power.

💖 Evolving beyond the Wheel of Consent to centre love, care and self-care in daily life.

💖 Creating safer rooms: clear frames, real choice, and honouring observing or leaving.

💖 Practising requests, clean yes and no, and unlearning the fawn response.

💖 Nervous system wisdom: why slowness and heart connection open many women’s sensuality.

💖 Sensory inflow: shifting from head loops to felt sense, oxytocin, and simple object-play.

💖 Meeting shame with honesty, transforming it—even into a liberating “shamegasm.”

💖 Core values of integrity, gratitude, generosity and surrender, plus Matt’s heartgasm moments.

About Matthias:

Matthias Schwenteck is a somatic consent educator, intimacy coach, and founder of the Somatic Consent Academy. With decades of experience in somatic embodiment, erotic education, and relational empowerment, he guides individuals, couples, and professionals to cultivate boundaries, deepen intimacy, and transform sexuality into conscious practice. His work integrates consent, touch, and erotic awareness into pathways of sovereignty and connection.

Connect with Matthias:

somaticconsent.com

somaticeros.com

Contact me:

info@samallencoachingcreatively.com

Find out more about working with me as a Sensual Embodiment Guide on my ⁠website⁠

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