DiscoverPsycHacksEpisode 550: Ask her out (the two bridges)
Episode 550: Ask her out (the two bridges)

Episode 550: Ask her out (the two bridges)

Update: 2025-09-051
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It took nearly dying on the adventure of a lifetime for Samwise Gamgee to make a move on Rosie Cotton. The hack to overcoming your approach anxiety is to build a habit of doing more difficult things: a conclusion that is borne out by one of my favorite psychology experiments, the study of the two bridges. If talking to a woman is the scariest thing you do today, you may need to evaluate your life choices.


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Episode 550: Ask her out (the two bridges)

Episode 550: Ask her out (the two bridges)

Orion Taraban