Episode 93: Navigating the Grandparent-Parent Relationship: Boundaries, Expectations & Building Connection with Deedee Moore

In this episode, Rachael sits down with Deedee Moore, creator of resources for modern grandparents, to talk about the often-unspoken complexities of grandparenting in today’s world. Together, they unpack everything from holiday overwhelm to unsolicited advice and the emotional tightrope we walk as parents trying to set boundaries without creating conflict.

Whether you're feeling tension around gifts, unsure how to communicate with in-laws, or just trying to figure out how to create a more supportive village, this conversation is full of practical insights and thoughtful reminders that we’re all learning as we go.

Inside this episode:

• Why grandparenting can feel fulfilling and challenging for everyone involved


• How to set boundaries around gifts, advice, and time without guilt


• Why communication should start before the baby even arrives


• Navigating holiday expectations and learning to accept disappointment


• Why building relationships (not giving stuff) matters most


• Are  modern grandparents really more busy, working, or caregiving in other ways?


• Tips for finding the right tone and timing for hard conversations


• How sharing your parenting resources with grandparents can reduce confusion


• Simple ideas to foster meaningful bonds between grandparents and grandchildren


• And so much more!

Mentioned in this episode:

• Free resource: How To Talk So Grandparents Will Listen
  


• Follow Deedee on Instagram: @morethangrand
  


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  New Grandparent Essentials
  
  


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  More Than Grand website
  

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