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Ep 508: Ruan Willow with Marla Renee Stewart, Sexologist, Sexual Strategist, & Author. Join us as we discuss the intricacies of sexual health, the importance of unlearning societal norms, and the ways to foster better communication and pleasure in relationships. Marla shares her insights on sexuality, well-being, seduction, sexual tension, toys, techniques, using dirty talk, and the fascinating world of kinky play. Whether you're curious about squirting, impact play, or integrating sex toys into your love life, this episode is packed with valuable advice and practical tips to enhance your sexual experiences.

Paying attention to your sexual health is a part of your mental health and self care strategies, as is seeking sex education. Alternative lifestyles are valid options. and can give people great happiness and satisfaction.
Discussion Timeline:
00:00:00 " Podcast has hit 1.1 million downloads
00:00:38 " Marla is a sexologist, author, sexual strategist
00:03:51 " Do you meet with individual clients or do you do classes?
00:04:33 " In some of your classes, you have kink classes and non-kinky classes
00:09:22 " Many people don't believe that squirting is a real thing, is it pee?
00:13:05 " Some people don't really know what the clitoris even looks like
00:17:37 " Your class helps femdoms understand their subs better
00:18:47 " One of the keys to driving sexual tension is the planting of sex seeds
00:24:26 " How about give us some tips or advice about people interested in impact play
00:26:15 " Do you find any age groups that are more open to trying new sexual
00:33:14 " Pervertibles are everyday household items that can be used for kinky play
00:34:08 " Now let's talk a little bit about sex toys--have a favorite one
00:37:39 " Do you think there are more toys available to women than
00:42:10 " Some people are scared of sex toys, but you can try them
00:45:15 " Always do the research. Munches are really great for education
00:47:16 " Why is aftercare important?
00:52:19 " Marla Stewart encourages people to try things at least three times
Resources:
- Velvet Lips https://www.velvetlipssexed.com/
- Sex Down South Conference
- Race & Kink
- The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay (affiliate link commission on sales) https://amzn.to/4ewvc3M
Social media: @1marlastewart
Guest Bio: Marla Renee Stewart, MA (she/her) is a sexologist, author, and sexual strategist who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips, and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 22 years and has given over 1000 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, which debuted in April 2020.

Podcast Host Ruan Willow's books/audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/

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