“You don’t have fertility issues, you have a gut health issue.”

Topics Discussed:

• How parasites and gut health impact fertility
  
  
  
  


• The emotional toll of trying to conceive while traveling
  
  
  
  


• Supplements, diet, and the overwhelm of doing “all the things”
  
  
  
  


• Why surrender is the hardest but most powerful shift
  
  
  
  


• Releasing control and shifting fertility timelines

“There’s no magic off switch for surrender—you just have to practice showing up differently every day.”

Hello Beautiful Souls, Monica here... Let's get one thing straight right out of the gate: what if your "fertility issues" are actually a massive, screaming gut health issue in a clever disguise? That’s the mic-drop truth we’re sitting with today from a powerful conversation with a woman who lived it.

We’re diving into the raw, real story of Ainsley, who did ALL the things—the packing cubes overflowing with supplements, the obsessive charting, the perfect prenatals—and still found herself heartbroken every single month. She was the epitome of the overachiever, trying to control every outcome, and her body was having absolutely none of it. It wasn’t until a parasite (yes, a literal gut-wrenching invader) forced her to stop and truly listen that everything shifted. This is about trading the white-knuckle control for a soul-deep surrender, and realizing that sometimes the most radical act is to just… let go.

This episode is a loving, sassy reminder that your body isn’t broken; it’s trying to tell you something. If you’ve ever felt like you’re trying to solve a puzzle with missing pieces while wearing a blindfold, you need to hear this. We’re talking about finding safety in your nervous system, changing the narrative from lack to proof, and how your little one is already teaching you lessons before they even arrive. Get ready for some serious truth bombs and a huge sigh of relief. Press play.

“Life always finds a way if we give it the opportunity.”

Timestamps: 

• 01:58 Ainsley’s fertility journey, the parasite that wrecked her gut health and fertility, and finally becoming pregnant. 


• 06:49 The crushing weight of monthly disappointment, the all-consuming obsession, and the radical power of surrendering control. 


• 10:12 The control patterns and overanalyzing everything, and how she learned to enjoy the journey. 


• 14:07 How gut health contributed to her healing, plus the proof points and mindset shifts that change everything.


• 12:20 The psychological toll of constant travel and feeling "unsafe" on conception. 


• 18:09 The power of releasing control and surrendering the timeline to reduce stress. 

“Our babies teach us lessons before they even arrive—and control is usually the first one.”

Full Transcript Over on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/finding-fertility-pregnancy-success-over-35-with-ainsley-part-one 

Connect with Ainsley:

• IG: https://www.instagram.com/ainsleymoir/

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Monica

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Anything written or said about health and diet are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional. Product recommendations are based on what I used during my infertility journey or wish I had.