Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them 


• What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross


• How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it)

Show Notes:

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