Confident life, faith, clarity, and rewriting your story—this empowering conversation with attorney Hannah Hembree Bell shows women how to move from feeling stuck to building a confident life they truly love. If you’ve ever settled for “fine,” felt disconnected from yourself, or questioned whether you deserve more, this episode will speak directly to your heart.

Hannah, founder of My Confident Divorce, shares her powerful journey from small-town bride and overwhelmed young mother to attorney, mother of four, and mentor to women seeking a confident life rooted in courage, identity, and truth. Together, we explore how to recognize when you’re stuck, how women lose themselves in motherhood and marriage, and why faith is essential when stepping into a confident life filled with meaning and purpose.

You’ll learn Hannah’s five-step framework for creating a confident life—whether you choose to stay, pursue a confident divorce, or completely reinvent your identity in midlife. Her story will inspire you to believe you deserve joy, clarity, and a confident life where your dreams, needs, and voice finally matter.

If you’re longing for confidence, craving direction, or ready to rebuild your life with intention, this episode will give you hope and practical tools to begin again.

(Main keyword used: confident life)

Timestamps:

(00:00 ) Introduction to Hannah Hembree Bell & My Confident Divorce

(02:15 ) “I think I’ve made a terrible mistake”—Hannah’s early marriage story

(05:42 ) Baby having babies: motherhood masking deeper issues

(08:30 ) The Facebook scroll moment that woke her up

(11:05 ) The “medium suck” life & signs you’re truly stuck

(14:18 ) Mental health, truth-telling & the first permission slip: “You deserve a happy life”

(17:40 ) Betting on yourself & stepping toward a confident life

(20:55 ) The cost of going into divorce depleted and unprepared

(24:32 ) Jury trial, custody, and rebuilding life after losing primary parenting time

(28:10 ) Why Hannah now helps women create a confident life

(30:45 ) Divorce as an on-ramp to a new life (and other wake-up calls: death, illness, job loss)

(33:02 ) Why women struggle to believe they deserve happiness

(36:15 ) Derivative identity: wife/mom vs. who you truly are

(39:05 ) Empty nest, gray divorce & midlife reinvention

(41:22 ) How to rediscover what you enjoy & who you are

(44:10 ) The “joy journal” + following breadcrumb interests

(46:38 ) Hannah’s 5-step framework for designing a confident life

(50:05 ) Step 1: Proclaiming you deserve a fulfilled, joyful life

(52:00 ) Step 2: Start with the end in mind—your future self

(53:40 ) Step 3: Honest inventory of what isn’t working

(55:12 ) Step 4: Identify your biggest constraint

(56:20 ) Step 5: Take the next right step toward a confident life

(57:30 ) Final encouragement: it’s never too late to start over

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• A confident life starts with believing you deserve happiness, purpose, and joy.
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• A “medium suck” life is still misaligned—and a powerful signal that it’s time for change.
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• Women often lose themselves in a derivative identity (wife/mom). True confidence comes from knowing who you are apart from roles.
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• Faith and clarity are essential when stepping into a confident life or confident divorce.
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• You can rebuild your identity through small steps: awareness, inventory, identifying constraints, and taking bold, aligned action.
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Guest Bio:

Hannah Hembree Bell is an award-winning Austin family law attorney, mom of four, and founder and CEO of one of the fastest-growing family law firms in the country, Hembree Bell Law. After experiencing her own difficult divorce and custody battle, she built a framework to help women avoid the same mistakes. Today, through her firm and her national education community, My Confident Divorce, Hannah equips women with the strategy and tools they need to protect their kids, finances, and future.

Resource Links:

Find Hannah at hannahhembreebell.com and her law firm at hembreebell.com 

Access Hannah’s free divorce guide at MyConfidentDivorce.com 

Listen to Hannah’s new podcast at notsavingitforlater.com 

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