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Gentle Village #006: Attachment, Communication, Sharing vs Dumping

Gentle Village #006: Attachment, Communication, Sharing vs Dumping

Update: 2023-12-14
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We are back, after a few months pause. In this episode we discuss:
Learned Secure Attachment



  • Neil's changing attachment strategies

  • Over-Sharing vs Mutual Care

  • Emotional dumping, lubricating with logic

  • Speech, language our lens of awareness

  • Deserving and privilege

  • Helping ourselves and others from Victim mindset using tentative offerings

  • Rupture and repair

  • Labelling and pigeon-hole-ing

  • Triggers

  • The damage of having your phone on you

  • Asking what kind of response the other wants

  • Conditional love and holding the other to ransom - Responsibility fascism

  • Too much expectation vs having clear standards




- Workshops, courses and 1:1 coaching at ⁠⁠Positively-Mindful.com: ⁠⁠ by Neil Morbey


- Courses and other offerings at ⁠⁠jamiecatto.com ⁠⁠by Jamie Catto








Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024


In this podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Jamie Catto (⁠⁠⁠Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and⁠⁠⁠ Neil Morbey ⁠⁠⁠(Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support. 


If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to ⁠⁠⁠neil@positively-mindful.com⁠⁠⁠ and jamie@jamiecatto.com

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Gentle Village #006: Attachment, Communication, Sharing vs Dumping

Gentle Village #006: Attachment, Communication, Sharing vs Dumping

Jamie Catto