Gentle Village #006: Attachment, Communication, Sharing vs Dumping
Description
We are back, after a few months pause. In this episode we discuss:
Learned Secure Attachment
- Neil's changing attachment strategies
- Over-Sharing vs Mutual Care
- Emotional dumping, lubricating with logic
- Speech, language our lens of awareness
- Deserving and privilege
- Helping ourselves and others from Victim mindset using tentative offerings
- Rupture and repair
- Labelling and pigeon-hole-ing
- Triggers
- The damage of having your phone on you
- Asking what kind of response the other wants
- Conditional love and holding the other to ransom - Responsibility fascism
- Too much expectation vs having clear standards
- Workshops, courses and 1:1 coaching at Positively-Mindful.com: by Neil Morbey
- Courses and other offerings at jamiecatto.com by Jamie Catto
Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024
In this podcast, Jamie Catto (Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and Neil Morbey (Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support.
If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to neil@positively-mindful.com and jamie@jamiecatto.com




