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We loved to talk about desire and pleasure and we know you'll get a lot from this one. If you're interested to work with Neil or Jamie in groups or 1:1 click to connect with us. Enjoy us talking about:

• Losing respect for people who love us as a result of low self-esteem


• The power of someone believing in you


• Receiving love, praise and pleasure


• Design flaw no1. We de-value availability and value scarcity. We take things for granted. We get hooked on mixed message people!


• Practicing letting in feedback


• Being embarrassed about our desires


• Practicing saying "You're welcome" and owning our work


• Receiving sexual pleasure as a choice - taking it in turns to wash each others feet with eye contact


• Neil's Birthday experience of receiving


• How much noise do we make - is this manipulation?


• Playing with shadows - Caring Kink - eroticising being punished


• Slowing down and building trust before rushing to kink


• Neil shares how he nearly died by rushing in!


• Maintaining erotic energy in long term relationships (Esther Perell - Mating In Captivity)


• How much to share, how boundaries begin with our own brain and mouth


• Using attunement to discern projection from truth


• Design flaw of humans no2. When we need our wits about us are usually the times when its the hardest

• Need vs Longing - using NVC effectively


• Desire is the root of suffering - only when its overly attached to outcome


• Embracing boredom - Feeling fulfilled in ourselves


• Chocolate Mouse as a magical substance

...And so much more!

Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024

In this podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Jamie Catto (⁠⁠⁠⁠Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and⁠⁠⁠⁠ Neil Morbey ⁠⁠⁠⁠(Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support. 

If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to ⁠⁠⁠⁠neil@positively-mindful.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ and jamie@jamiecatto.com