HOT TAKE!!! Is "Being the Bigger Person" Really Just Self Abandonment...?
Update: 2025-11-03
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Let’s get real: “Being the bigger person” sounds noble… until you realize you’re the only one doing the emotional labor.
In this episode, we’re breaking down how the cultural obsession with being “mature” or “above it” often leads to self-abandonment. We talk about the fine line between emotional growth and people-pleasing, and how to tell when “keeping the peace” is actually costing you your peace.
If you’ve ever walked away from a situation proud of your restraint but secretly furious, this one’s for you.
💬 In this episode:
- The sneaky ways self-abandonment hides behind “maturity”
- Why we confuse peacekeeping with healing
- How to recognize when you’re betraying yourself to be liked
- What real emotional maturity looks like
✨ You’ll walk away with:
- Permission to stop swallowing your truth to look “healed”
- Language to hold boundaries without guilt
- The reminder that authenticity is more peaceful than silence
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