"I never learned the word stress until I was 14 years old. And I can guarantee you I was very stressed well before the age of 14." -- Rae

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EPISODE SUMMARY:

In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, host Beth Syverson interviews Rae, whose handle is Adoptee Reclaimed. Rae discusses how being homeschooled from kindergarten through high school in a conservative family led to feelings of isolation and pressure to conform. She highlights the challenges adoptees particularly face in homeschooling, such as the heightened power dynamic between adoptive parents and adoptees, the lack of diverse perspectives in education, and the impact on social skills development.

Rae emphasizes the importance of having additional teachers or group activities to provide different perspectives and social interactions for homeschooled adoptees. She also shares advice for isolated adoptees, encouraging them to be patient with themselves and seek out supportive communities.

Overall, the episode sheds light on the complexities of adoption and homeschooling, urging listeners to engage with adoptees and homeschooling families to better understand and support them. Rae's insights provide valuable perspectives on the intersection of adoption and education, highlighting the need for more awareness and support for adoptees in homeschooling environments.

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RESOURCES:

Rae’s information:

• Find Rae as Adoptee Reclaimed on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adoptee_reclaimed

• Find Rae as Adoptee Reclaimed on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/adopteereclaimed

Other resources mentioned in this episode:

• Coalition for Responsible Home Education: https://responsiblehomeschooling.org/

Other resources:

• APtitude Support Group for Adoptive Parents Facing Adoption’s Challenges: http://UnravelingAdoption.com/APtitude

• Other Parents Like Me - http://oplm.com

• Heather Ross - Life Coaching for Parents who have a child struggling with addiction: https://heatherrosscoaching.com/

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Music written and performed by Joseph Nakao

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TIME STAMPS:

• 00:00:02 - Introduction to Unraveling Adoption

• 00:01:13 - Introducing Guest, Rae, and Discussion on Homeschooling

• 00:02:54 - Rae's Experience with Homeschooling and Adoption

• 00:04:44 - Rae's Initial Thoughts on Homeschooling

• 00:06:16 - Challenges Faced in Homeschooling

• 00:08:30 - Impact of Isolation in Homeschooling on Adoptees

• 00:10:00 - Transition to College and Educational Gaps

• 00:11:06 - Intersection of Homeschooling and Adoption

• 00:12:58 - Pressure to Conform in Homeschooling

• 00:14:31 - Potential for Abuse in Homeschooling

• 00:15:41 - Educational Gaps and Social Challenges in College

• 00:17:50 - Emotional Growth and Social Behavior

• 00:19:44 - Recommendations for Improving Homeschooling for Adoptees

• 00:22:18 - Ways to Support Adoptees in Isolated Homeschooling Environments

• 00:26:06 - Advice for Isolated Adoptees

• 00:28:06 - Conclusion and Contact Information