What if the secret to transforming your marriage isn’t getting more, but giving more? What if the biggest shift you need isn’t in your spouse... but in you?

In this episode of Weaponized Marriage, Kendra and Dr. Ryan Hewitt reflect on the moments shared during the memorial service for Charlie Kirk, especially through the lens of Erica Kirk’s breathtaking eulogy. Whether you knew Charlie or not, this episode unpacks timeless truths about the sacred covenant of marriage, the hard and holy act of forgiveness, and the daily choice to live in service of each other.

Kendra shares how one line from Erica, “How can I serve you better?”, stopped her in her tracks and became a call to action in her own marriage and family. Dr. Ryan brings insight on the masculine longing for peace, respect, and shared vision at home. Together, they discuss how forgiveness, when embraced fully, becomes a gateway to freedom, not just for your marriage, but your soul.

Whether you’re walking through a tough season, or just hungry for deeper connection, this episode calls you back to the heart of God’s design for marriage.

Key Takeaways:

True transformation in marriage begins with a shift from “me” to “we.”

Forgiveness isn’t a one-time event, it’s a continual act of surrender and healing.

Creating a peaceful, welcoming home can radically change your family’s dynamic.

Small intentional shifts (like how you wake your kids) can ripple into big emotional changes.

A shared mission or vision gives couples purpose beyond the daily grind.

“If you're too busy washing feet, you don't have time to throw stones.”

Take a moment today to ask your spouse one simple but powerful question: How can I serve you better? Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs that reminder too. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss a conversation that could change your marriage forever.

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Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links:
Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/