Is your marriage surrounded by friendships that strengthen it, or slowly drain it? In today’s episode, we unpack an experience that challenged us to redefine what community really means for our marriage. We’re fresh off a weekend trip to Charleston, SC, where we attended the Wives Meeting of the Chiropractic Knights of the Round Table, a powerful, invite-only brotherhood rooted in faith, values, and purpose. And this time, something extraordinary happened: Dr. Ryan was officially knighted.

What started as a curiosity about a mysterious “men’s group” turned into a weekend that left us both reflecting deeply on the importance of intentional friendships, not just individually, but as a couple. From meaningful conversations with women walking the same path, to the symbolism of knighthood and a literal engraved sword, we realized how rare and essential it is to be surrounded by people who elevate your standards, challenge your values, and inspire you to lead with love.

Together, we explore the surprising dynamics of building couple friendships, the unspoken expectations we carry into marriage, and why so many of us are starved for deep, value-driven community.

Takeaways:

True community is built on commitment, values, and intentionality, not convenience.

Your marriage reflects the influence of your closest relationships.

Friendships in adulthood often default to proximity over purpose, and that can cost us.

Couples need shared friendships that fuel growth, not just social plans.

Regular, value-aligned gatherings can re-anchor your marriage in seasons of busyness.

“This isn’t just a group that meets for sh*ts and giggles, it’s about legacy, alignment, and lifting each other higher.” - Kendra Hewitt

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