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How I Molded Myself to Be a Magnet for Avoidant Partners

How I Molded Myself to Be a Magnet for Avoidant Partners

Update: 2025-08-16
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In this episode, I open up about how I subconsciously molded myself to attract avoidant partners and how that pattern was rooted in my earliest experiences of love. I share how I learned to appear “cool,” independent, and unattached in order to feel wanted, and why that left me feeling disconnected and unfulfilled in relationships.

If you’ve ever found yourself downplaying your needs, pretending to be more “chill” than you are, or attracting people who can’t meet your emotional depth, this episode will help you reflect on those hidden patterns. My hope is that it gives you insight into your own subconscious motivations, clarity about how you’ve been showing up in love, and encouragement to realign with your authentic, secure self.


* Learn about 1:1 Attachment Coaching with Jessica here.

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How I Molded Myself to Be a Magnet for Avoidant Partners

How I Molded Myself to Be a Magnet for Avoidant Partners

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT