On this episode of Trending with Timmerie, Timmerie tackles how postpartum depression is often used to scare women away from motherhood or from having more children. She shares her own story of a difficult season after a cross-country move with a newborn and explains how many women face ordinary adjustment stress that can look like PPD. 

Timmerie contrasts today’s near-universal screening and pathologizing language with how previous generations saw the postpartum period as a season of recovery and bonding. She challenges the “one in seven” mantra when it becomes a blanket fear tactic or a reason to label normal sleep loss, household chaos, and unmet expectations as disease. The call is not to dismiss real PPD, but to name the difference between clinical depression and the hard but holy transition of welcoming a new life.

Key takeaways

-PPD is real, but not every hard feeling after birth is PPD. Many moms are navigating sleep loss, isolation, and routine shock.

-About half of women diagnosed with PPD had prior depression, which can blur the lines between postpartum adjustment and an existing condition.

-Culture can weaponize PPD language to deter women from motherhood or more children.

-Reframing helps: call it “newborn land”, accept a temporary mess, lower perfectionism, and seek practical support.

-From a Catholic view, marriage is ordered to welcoming and forming children, which grows virtue and sanctity. Hard does not mean harmful.

Action step: If symptoms are severe or persistent, get medical help. If not, lean on community, sacramental life, simple routines, nutrition, and sleep where possible.

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