There are many stories of people leaving the LDS church and how this faith impacted their lives in a negative way. Here is part of our story and the impacts that leaving this religion has on our our relationship today. We both grew up in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints AKA Mormon religion. Sarah has been out of the LDS faith for 10 years and Tony has been out for 8 years. Despite being out of the religion for many years, we have religious programming that brings us shame and anger today. We discuss marriage, divorce, sexual shame, and the cost of leaving a purity culture.