How To Take Your Friends With You
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Do you know what we don't talk about enough?
How much it sucks that you can't take everyone with you.
What did Nip say?
ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ꜰᴇᴡ ꜱʜᴏᴡꜱ, ɪ ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ʙᴜʏ ꜱᴏᴍᴇ ɴᴇᴡ ɢᴏʟᴅ /
ᴄɪʀᴄʟᴇ ɢᴏᴛ ꜱᴍᴀʟʟᴇʀ, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏʙᴏᴅʏ ᴄᴀɴ'ᴛ ɢᴏ - ɴɪᴘꜱᴇʏ ʜᴜꜱꜱʟᴇ
...and it's true. As much as you may want to bring everyone; everybody can't go.
So let's change the title of this one.
How to take a few people with you:
1. Figure out where you're going.
I want to be clear here.
When I say take everyone with you I mean to the place where you achieve your ideal time freedom.
That's how I like to measure success by the way.
Time freedom is how much of your time you get to spend doing exactly what you want... without compromise.
Time freedom is directly related to happiness.
So that's where we're going. Happiness.
You wanna be happy? Keep reading.
2. Now, figure out how you're going to get there.
For entrepreneurs, this usually means starting a business and offering a service that we enjoy providing.
If you think about it, most businesses sell just one thing. Happiness.
Insurance agents sell happiness policies.
The client is happy when it protects them from a loss.
Barbers sell happiness.
The client is happy when the cut gets compliments.
Graphic designers sell happiness.
The client is happy when their branding attracts their ideal customers.
That's what most business is about. Turning frowns upside down.
Or better stated... fixing problems.
3. Share your happy
This is the important part.
Sharing how you spend your time will attract the people who want to spend their time the way you spend your time.
This is why infomercials with happy people partying on a boat worked so well selling courses. Those guys were sharing a lifestyle and selling stop by step instructions on how to achieve their level of time freedom.
The people who are close to you and want the same kind of happiness you have will ask for the instructions.
Congratulations!! You found the ones you can take with you.
Everyone else? You let them find their way and avoid putting energy and resources into convincing them that your version of happiness is the version they should want.
I am #thebestversionofme